I DON’T UNDERSTAND PARENTS WHO LET THEIR KIDS “EXPRESS THEMSELVES” HOWEVER THEY WANT.

Parents who let their children express themselves understand that we grow up to be our own person. Simple as that. You can’t control them forever.
you are right, you can’t control them forever, BUT as long as they are under your roof, they have to learn there are rules that need to be followed.
At least , that’s the way it was when I grew up and when my children grew up. Just my opinion.
  • I know its hard to see the decisions they make. I remember . Your granddaughter has to live with the permanency of her tattoos. A sad reality some regret. Maybe when she is older she will care, maybe not for a while. The sad part is most of the time th… 
  • She is a beautiful girl. I wonder if mom has actually talked to her about her choices. I believe it’s a stage of her trying to figure out who she is. Just give her some guidelines and let her be her. They’re grown up gone from us too soon. Enjoy her while you can.